John and Sara are already engaged. It’s one of the most
blissful union I had ever seen. Even though they met about six months ago, their chemistry
was just perfect. They decided on the perfect day to have their wedding. Both of
them had very rich parents and as a man, John decided to take up most of the responsibility.They
bought the best wedding dress ever and Basket mouth was going to be the MC of
the day. In fact, John had to part with #500,000 to get his dream gold ring. As
if that was not enough, the best event centre in Lagos was booked. Imagine
planning a wedding with over a thousand guest and king Sunny Ade being the
performing musician. That was their kind of wedding and I was contracted to shoot
it
90% of the time,
it is usually the bride that contacts me to handle their wedding photography.
Well, that won’t be surprising to a fellow photographer (unless one that shoots
burial ceremonies only). It has always being a subject of concern to me and and
I almost always ask the question, why? I believe that every decision is
important in the wedding planning process but some are more important than the
others. Well, maybe that’s just how life
is. We tend to major on the minor and minor on the major.
Whenever I arrive at a wedding, I feel am the
most important person. Even though I am not the one getting married, I believe
my job as the photographer is priceless. When other contributors to the wedding like the caterers, decorators,
MC, makeup artist, music band, cake designer etc. all end their contribution
on the wedding day, the relevance of job
as a photographer has just began. Come to think of it, what happens to Sara’s wedding dress after the wedding other
being wrapped up and stored in a wardrobe forever. No matter how much Basket
mouth is paid, his job ends on the wedding day. I have being to many weddings where the decorators start to unpack their
decorations even before the wedding is over(although I feel it’s not so nice).
Couples must therefore
ensure that their wedding photographer
help them capture those treasured moments that matter most in such a way that will depict
their personality and portray who they are. Consequently, one can conclude that
the choice of wedding photographer is the most important decision a couple can
take. Imagine the feeling that comes to mind by sequentially flipping through the
pages of a wedding album 15 years into the marriage, scanning through the
images of friends and family. Love begins to fill the air and then the
relationship feels new again as if it all started some moments ago
In this regards,
never choose a wedding photographer based on someone else’s opinion only. Take
your time to check out their style of shooting and portfolio. I usually advice
couples to select a photographer who is a wedding specialist just like you
would prefer seeing an ophthalmologist over a generalist for eye examination. I often advice bridegrooms to be actively involved
When they are going to make that most important decision. They shouldn’t leave it into the hands of the brides alone, just because the bride’s father will
pay for the services( which obviously relieves burden on them). Our choices will make or mar us, so
why not wisely make a good choice together. At least, what they say is that two
(good) heads are better than one.
John
and Sara’s story is never going to be complete without having a good
photographer to capture the beautiful details of all those things they have
invested their monies into. Moreover, life is short, so you might as well
invest in getting the best wedding photos that will portray your personality
and keep beautiful memories alive. Your wedding photographer could be your
greatest asset.
So inspiring.......thumbs up.
ReplyDeleteThanks, @ damilola. am always here at your service.You will soon be able to get articles to help you get started as a photographer or to improve if you have already started.
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